One of the boys.
I was ignorant. Then I was in denial until I saw the signs. It was mama who straight up to me and said “abi nila guro lalaki ka.” (They probably think you're a boy.) Don't expect me to confess that I'm a lesbian or a bi because I am not! I am somehow afraid of them. It even took me years to accept my gay friends. See, papa doesn't like gay people and I'm like papa in a lot of ways. Anyway, now that's all settled, after mama told that to me it lets me think of what were the scenarios and the pros and cons of having more than half of your friends as boys. For the backgrround, I have an elder brother, lately we've been closer than usual! I'm happy about it! Also, I have lots of friends who are boys from every group I've probably been. I am not one of thos girls who proudly proclaims that she's boyish. As I've been saying, it took me a while to recognize such scenario. So here are the cons of being one of the boys. They physicall...